Good News Or Bad News – And The Difference Is?

At any point had somebody give you awful news? What about uplifting news? What’s the distinction or is there a distinction?

Uplifting news – stuff or data that satisfies us, content, consoled, secure and approved.

Awful news – the inverse.

In this way, apparently there is a contrast among great and terrible news – read on.

Have you at any point gotten terrible news however in the end things ended up great or better than you expected? Have you at any point got uplifting news and over the long haul your thought process was uplifting news turned out to be not super great?

From individual experience I can let you know that I have encountered each of the four –

Uplifting news that was great.

Terrible news that was awful.

Uplifting news that I believed was great yet turned out to be awful.

Awful news that I believed was terrible and turned out to be great.

Confounded at this point? Well I realize that over the long haul I was in many cases befuddled about the distinction between these two obvious inverse messages. However at that point I discovered that occasionally awful news for one individual can be seen as uplifting news for another person and that uplifting news to one individual over the long haul can be seen as terrible.

Befuddled? Allow me to make sense of.

In the end it’s simply news and what makes it terrible or great or even nonpartisan isn’t the actual news yet the way in which we see it, judge it, assess it or respond as a result of it.

How might somebody see terrible news as great you would inquire? Or on the other hand the inverse, how is it that someone could see uplifting news as terrible?

In short – every one of us has an exceptional history, encounters, convictions and values and thus not a single one of us at any point see exactly the same thing or situation similarly.

Somebody who is a worrier, pessimistic, critical or fretful could see a deferral as terrible when someone else who comprehends the idea of there are things we have some control over and there are things we have no control over so why blow up about something you have no control over or on the other hand on the off chance that you have some control over it get going.

In the end all that occurs – simply occurs and what we do is decipher everything in light of our assumptions, objectives, requirements or outlooks and these are special for every one of us.

Allow me to provide you with two or three individual models. Also, assuming that you will consider the clarification despite the fact that you might not have had the very same conditions, looking at the situation objectively I’ll be you can relate.

Before gazing my talking and preparing vocation I was a public team lead for a worldwide association. Boring tale yet the short side is I disapproved of my chief, the president and subsequently he terminated me. Awful news, isn’t that so? Well that was all I expected to conclude the time had come to start a profession that has endured north of 40 years and has permitted me to see the world (25 nations to date) and work for certain enormous clients and crowds. So in the end this awful news was truly uplifting news.

Here is another speedy one.

A long time back I proposed to my better half and she said OK. Uplifting news right? (No decisions here please). Well over the long haul subsequent to giving a valiant effort for over fifteen years I concluded that the time had come to end it and why? All things considered, without the frightful subtleties, the relationship was slowly disintegrating my confidence, certainty and hopeful outlook and I concluded that I could have done without who I was becoming in that relationship. We separated, genially – however we separated. Uplifting news as I was capable – over the long haul – to recover all I had lost – emotio